we both ♥ our love

Who are we, how many are we, how are we, what are we and most important: why are we??

I thought the time came to tell you something about us!

Let´s start to officially present Sanjay::

He comes from Nepal, lives in Germany since five years. He moved here to study, but after a while he left the university and started working, but this is already part of our history. 

He loves football, hanging out with friends, photography and his country. He´s a proud nepalese, not always happy to live here in Germany. I just think he miss really much his family and his friends. He speaks Hindu, Nepalese, a better English than mine and German. Together we speak German.

He always smile, even if angry or sad, he´s always smiling ( one of the reason because i falled in love with him) and he´s a simple person. He doesn´t need really much to be happy, and with his smile makes other people happy. He is just contagious. It´s not a secret that i can´t stay angry with him for a long time, i just look at his face and have to smile :D

___________________ About Us ________________

Everything started on March 2011. To time I was working in a restaurant and i wanted to go back to Italy for some holiday. After i came back and started with my daily routine at work, my colleagues told me that while i was in Italy, there was a boy working at my place and now that i was back, this boy was working in the other restaurant of our boss as barkeeper. One week-end i had to work in the same restaurant with him. I came inside and i saw him. He was cutting limes for Cocktails. I just thought: " Wow, finally a nice barkeeper!" We started working together regularly every week-end, and every time I thought: " He´s really cute and funny, but of course i will never be his type". Till one day, my colleague told me, she was speaking with him and he was interested in me.. i was like " WHAT??!! O-o" But totally happy of course! We started to go out together and after a while he left the job ´cause of me: he didn´t want to create problems between me and my boss ( my boss didn´t want relationships between colleagues, but i think it´s normal). We officially became a couple on 5th June, after a date on the shores of a lake. It was really romantic. We started to have really much fun together, every day  to become more important, till i didn´t move to him in his apartment in a student campus. ( he was still in the University) We had become an important part of the life of the other, without realizing it really. All has happened very quickly. I started to be a part of a big family, of the " Nepalese students in Berlin"´s family ( it´s a really big family). Everything was perfect. We were happy. Till one day he didn´t pass an exam at the university. Since that day, was just a fall in the deep. We had to move to another apartment because we couldn´t stay in the students campus anymore, i lost my work, he losts his work, and the bigger problem of all: his residence permit was about to expire. I just didn´t want to lose him. I think no one want to lose the person who loves. So I did something that changed my life forever and that everyone would feel stupid and rash: i asked him to marry me... I mean, i had just 3 choises: 1- to lose him, just over. But i loved & still love him too much. 2- Move to Nepal with him, but i had to lose my friends, my family and i would have learned german and went to school for nothing, just over. And must be considered that I didn´t speak the language and didn´t know his family and so on. No thanks. 3- Marry him. I choose this one. 
So we went in Denmark to get married ( it was cheaper and quickly than in Berlin). If you want to look our little honeymoon click here. And here are the pictures of our wedding.

And here we are. Now it´s 1 year we are married, we still love us, and i don´t absolutely regret my decision. Ok, maybe sometimes we fight among ourselves, and i think: " What the hell have I done??" but after i look at him, look at his smile, look at his love, and just thank the heaven to have an husband like him. He couldn´t be more perfect for me ( and no joke, where do I find a man with a patience as him to me?? I´m not the easiest woman in the world when I have a bad mood or day =^-^= that´s not a secret :P ) And we are what we are. An international couple, trying to find their place in this world. And everything it´s going to be alright, till we´re together. 

~ with love, Vero ♥